Oh my sunshine !!

“It was glorious day and he was like a live SHADOW in the Sunshine “

You are my sunshine

You are the light of my life

Always be on my side

Other people wake up to sunshine

But i wake up to you

You are my sunshine

You are not just a friend

You BRIGHTEN up my life

Now here you are sunshine       through the night

Light in my dark

Even stars burn out but you held the spark

Now here you are to stay

You are my sunshine on a Rainy Day

You make my dull BRIGHT

You make my wrong right

You up my downside

You make my hope

You make my life roll

You know my love grown

You are my sunshine

You make me happy

You put smile on my face

You are my sunshine and i want you to know , that my feeling are true

I really  LOVE you…….




“Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it. ”

But instead of sharing my own thoughts and experiences like I usually do I’d like to take a different approach today.

In my experience, three of the most important reasons are:

  • Life becomes simpler and lighter . When you love yourself more then things simply become lighter and easier. You won’t make as many mountains out of molehills (or out of plain air) as you used to. Or beat yourself up or drag yourself down over mistakes or temporary setbacks
  • You’ll have more inner stability and self-sabotage less. When your opinion of yourself goes up then you’ll stop trying to get so much validation and attention from other people. You become less needy and find an inner stability even when your world might be negative or uncertain at times.
  • The increasing self-esteem and self-love also makes you feel more deserving of good things in life and so you’ll self-sabotage less and go after what you deep down want with more motivation and focus than ever before.
  • You’ll be happier. The main reason why value my self-esteem so highly, why I write about this topic so often and have created a whole 12-week course around it is simply because it has made my own life so much happier and more fun.


8 Signs Of Self-Doubt That Secretly Mean You’re Actually Becoming Successful

1. Not everyone likes you, or your work.

Unless you’re being intentionally malicious and the consensus seems to be that you’re altogether disliked by everyone, having some people dislike you is an incredible sign of personal development. It means you’re clear on your identity, are making a statement with your work, and aren’t willing to compromise who you are in order to appease everyone. Not to mention the fact that when people envy others’ success, they often try to identify reasons why they aren’t that great, or deserving. Let this sort of feedback be a sign that you’re really starting to impact people in a way you haven’t before.

2. You’re becoming a perfectionist.

When you start to get really particular about how you and your work appear, it means you’re getting clearer and clearer on your vision. It means that you are willing to put in the extra labor to create something extraordinary, not just “good enough.” Being a perfectionist in every part of your life will cause you stress. Being a perfectionist in your work will make you a master.

3. You’re learning how to let go.

You’re learning how to be wrong, how to start over when something isn’t going well, how to accept what you cannot change. It is impossible to truly fulfill your potential without experiencing some setbacks and road blocks. Your ability to identify them – and then let them go – correlates to your success overall. You’re focused on your end goal, not making sure everything goes exactly the way you once anticipated it would.

4. You’re not sure what the future holds.

This is perhaps the most counterintuitive sign of success, but the most common. When you are really actualizing potential and pursuing your dreams, security flies out the window. You no longer know what the end of the year holds, forget a 5 year plan or anything like that. The reality is that people latch onto ideas that make them feel safe. You shouldn’t know what you’re doing in the future: life changes too often, and you should always hold space to change your mind, try something new, or ascend to a destiny greater than you can even imagine right now.

5. You’re confronting limiting fears.

You think that because you are doing what you “love” each day, you should be filled with joy and inspiration… only to find that the limiting beliefs, fears and ideas that once paralyzed you are dancing around in your head more than ever. Consider it an incredible thing if you have something so powerful and incredible in your life that you could fear losing it, that you could fear not being good enough for it, that you could fear failing. You are only witnessing fears that were latent, and now you’re being given the opportunity to let them pass.

6. You have to let go of the life you once thought you’d live.

So many people think that reality not living up to their expectations is failure, but really, it is often a sign of success. Life shouldn’t look the way you once thought it would. If things unfold exactly as you anticipated, you have not taken risks, gone on adventures, or done any significant work on finding who you really are and what you really want. Your concept of the “ideal life” will evolve over time; honor each version.

7. You’ve changed as a person.

When you look back on the person you were just a year or so ago, it should be surprising even to you how much you have changed and how different you are as a person. Though the core tenets of your personality will likely withstand over the years, when you change your life to fulfill your dreams, your work ethic, your habits, your preferences, your hobbies and your mindset will shift dramatically.

8. You realize success isn’t everything.

Perhaps the wildest sign of them all is that when you start to become truly successful, you also start to realize how little it matters. You will start to realize that it is not the answer to your problems, and that you also value the people in your life, your down time, and your ability to enjoy your days. True success is realizing that success is not everything people think it is, and it is a privilege to be able to know that. 

Privacy is not the most important right …

Privacy is actually defined as the right to be left alone or not to share your belongings with others . These belongings may include your information , your matters , your truth , and your secrets .

The right of privacy is important for free people . This is a fundamental human right and it should be available by everyone without any fear or hesitation .

In the interest of safety and national security sometimes privacy is valid because its the matter of our nation safety . The right of life , without fear is important right  .

In our society if a person is full of suprises then people take more interest to findout the secret of that person . But if the person is not doing any wrong work then they have no fear of opening up .

Its just the matter of understanding . Sometimes privacy is not become the most important thing  because it will give you freedom . If a person is without privacy then he or she has no fear .

If the watchdog is keeps on watching you , you can’t get out of your house & you can’t explore  the things .  

Security is necessary for things but privacy is destroy the space of showing yor feelings , happiness and it never give you that satisfaction which you need in your life . 

Practically their is no warrent that other people should watch or interfere in others work . But if the man was doing right then their is no way tp fear . Its your life and you have right to do what you want . No work has right to intrupt in your work , your life …….

Thanks 💕

Say no to Explainations !!!

When ever we do something  and people get to know about it they ask for explainations that why we are doing this … They never think that its our choice to do this .. What they do is puting their perception their choices on us . They say ” you are wrong ,  i m right listen to me , forget about your thinking ” why we have to act like a body withoul soul ……. Why we follow their instructions when the life we are living its our .. The dreams we follow its our .. We do things to satisfy our feelings not their  then why we have to explaining them when our lives are different , our choices , interest , feelings everything is soo different … Why everyone wants to interfair in our lives …. You have to think about it because whenever you explained about something to someone the value of your choices is started decreasing .. Giving explaination to anyone is simply defines that you are doubting yourself……. So stop eplaining yourself AND start beleiving yourself …..

Thanku ❤️❤️

What love is ???

If you think , long late night chats  are love .. Then may be its wrong …!!!! Beacause two peep’s whor alone can also talk for the sake of their lonelyness…

If you think a girl hold your hand by seeing another girl and you also did the same thing AND you think this cute jealousy is love .. Then may be its wrong . Because  people catch birds to snatch their freedom ….!!!!

 If you think you two are much efficient to understand one anothers feelings and this is love .. Then may be its not .!! Beacuse two hungry people are also understand thir feelings but they failed to fullfill their needs ….!!!!

If you think you both are the characters of same story And you think this is love .. Then my dear may be it’s  not.!!! Because we can’t save love in filters but love is to live your story …!!!

But if you want to discover their soul instead of their body , if that stupid wants to waste their life for you , if she opens her secrets infront of you before she open her clothes and you to did the same  , if their tears only rolls on your shirt and your happiness is her/his life Dream .. Then my dear it is  LOVE  ….!!!

Thankyou ❤️

Secret Love !!!

A secret love is beautiful, sweet and sacred when it’s just a light infatuation; but when that person reaches over and touches you in the heart, making it alive in a way it has never known, that secret love becomes frightening, because you can never make them love you, you would never want to make them love you…but all the same, no matter which way you view it, they don’t love you…and your heart doesn’t know how to beat the same. 

I hide my love in field and town Till een the breeze would knock me down, The bees seemed singing ballads oer, The fly’s bass turned a lion’s roar; And even silence found a tongue, To haunt me all the summer long; The riddle nature could not prove Was nothing else but secret love.

We’ve all at some point in our life encountered that feeling of secretly liking someone, secretly having your eyes on them, secretly wishing they knew, but deep inside you were afraid of what the outcome would be. So you kept it unnoticed. Kept it hidden, locked inside, just hoping that maybe one day that moment would finally come when they would notice you!  

   It’s a funny thing secret love. You would change yourself and your whole world just to be with them; just to hear them talk to you makes you feel as though you’re experiencing an epiphany. Just to see them look at you makes you feel as though every speck of what you are is valuable; and to watch them walk in the room, the ordinary, dark boring room and watch it change when they walk in as if they carry a piece of the sun itself in their being, as if now that they’ve arrived the whole world will be okay again. As if having them near would be the nearest thing to heaven you’ve ever known. But they don’t love you and they walk on by each time with a smile, a nod and vanish away from your hungry sight.     

It does good to no woman to be flattered [by a man] who does not intend to marry her; and it is madness in all women to let a secret love kindle within them, which, if unreturned and unknown, must devour the life that feeds it; and, if discovered and responded to, must lead, ignis-fatuus-like, into miry wilds whence there is no extrication. 

 How flippantly we all treat a secret love, like a joke, something cute, as if it’s just a sweet little thing to pat. But when we are the secret lover, we hold our breath with each word they speak, we long so desperately for their touch, even just brief, we could almost bleed we long for it so. And when they find a lover, we feel like a shadow, longing to be seen as real, until we finally learn we have nothing more to do than to fade away from their light.     

A secret love is beautiful, sweet and sacred when it’s just a light infatuation; but when that person reaches over and touches you in the heart, making it alive in a way it has never known, that secret love becomes frightening, because you can never make them love you, you would never want to make them love you…but all the same, no matter which way you view it, they don’t love you…and your heart doesn’t know how to beat the same..     

Love never grows when its secretly kept locked in our hearts. Love will only find its fulfillment when it finds it’s way out and dwells in the heart of that person destined to keep it.     
One sweet, sad secret holds my heart in thrall; A mighty love within my breast has grown, Unseen, unspoken, and of no one known; And of my sweet, who gave it, least of all.     

Thnkuh 💕

Her untold feelings !!!

She starts in her soliloquy by worrying about his name and how his name is her enemy , not himself .

Once they see each other, she declares her love when she says , ” My bounty is a soundless as the sea , My love as deep; the more i give to them , the mor i have for both are infinite  “. 

Shortly after this , she and ROMEO decide that they will get married as soon as possible  , with no worries  about the future or their families feud……..

Thank you ❤️

Ghost Dreams: What do They Mean?!

A Haunted Dream Interpretation…

What do ghost dreams mean? I’ve been asked this question quite a few times over the years. Unfortunately, most people believe that ghost dreams are a bad omen of some kind.  Most people believe either:

  1. Someone they know is going to die.
  2. Someone they know who HAS died is trying to get a message .

Actually, you’ll be relieved to know that neither is the case.  When one dreams of ghosts, the dream interpretation is actually simple. Think about one of the main words we associate with ghosts: HAUNTED.

Dreaming of a ghost (or ghosts) indicates that the dreamer is haunted by something in his or her life.  They could be haunted by guilt, they could be haunted by unfulfilled dreams, or they could be haunted by memories.  These types of things “haunt” most of us, at least to some extent.  However, some people have unresolved issues concerning these “haunts.”  If you dream of ghosts, it’s probable that something you may have thought was in the past isn’t “so” in the past after all.

The subconscious mind tries to “sort things out” while we’re sleeping. If you have had one or more dreams about ghosts, your subconscious mind is trying to make sense of (or sort out) something that haunts you.

Only the dreamer knows for certain. If you ever find yourself in a situation where you’re trying to get in touch with your dream’s meaning, below are a few tips that’ll help you – whether your dream was visited by ghosts or not:

  • Get in a quiet place with absolutely no distractions.  You don’t want anything causing your mind to wander while it’s trying to figure out your dreams.
  • Clear your mind of any stray thoughts or worries.
  • Breath deeply and focus all of your energy on the interpretation of your dream.

If other people are in the house, one of the best spots to reflect upon your dreams may be an unusual place: The shower or bathtub!  Think about it – people are less likely to disturb you here than anywhere else.

Finally, please keep in mind that dreams are not omens.  That’s it……

Are Selfies Selfish?

an be a very selfish thing. In the old days, people would take pictures to share with others what they saw. “Look, here is a beautiful flower!” “A historic building!” But now that’s not enough. It’s as if we need to add ourselves to everything. The focus is not on the flower or the landmark; it’s me, and something else in the background.

But focusing on yourself can sometimes be a good thing.

We’ve begun the seven weeks of Sefirat HaOmer, when we count the days from Passover to Shavuot, and each day is another step in a process of self-refinement. For 49 days we are to take our personality and examine it closely, repairing the broken parts and perfecting the good ones. Each week focuses on another one of the seven facets of our personality, and each day focuses on one subfacet.

And when we do it, it’s perfectly fine to share with others as well, if that will propel you or them forward.

Use Facebook, Instagram or Twitter to tell the world about your personal journey, and encourage them to join you.

Think you ……😇😇😇😇

True lies!!!

A false lie would be the truth if a true lie is an untruth 

People also say ‘actual fact’ when in fact there is no such thing, as a fact must be true to be a fact in the first place.the truthness with which you believe a lie to be true. Doing wrong things for right purpose.

Real Eyes Realise Real Lies

A false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood.

1) something intended or serving to convey a false impression; imposture:

For example :-

His flashy car was a lie that deceived no one.

1) the charge or accusation of telling a lie:

He flung the lie back at his accusers.